My
child refused to dress up for her dance class Halloween thing yesterday.
I'm not
going to lie; this doesn't upset me at all. She was adamant we wouldn't even
deviate from her normal outfit, though I did sneak in a pair of My Little Legs to keep her warm (which made her look like a less sweaty version of the chick from "Flashdance"). Know why this is awesome to me? My kid was being herself and going against the grain. At least that's what I'm
telling myself after last year's meltdown about putting on a damn
costume for class.
Before
anyone can call me out and say I'm stealing part of their childhood by not enforcing a dress up policy,
please just stop. I'm doing nothing of the sort. I'm allowing my child a
choice, which I actually think is fairly responsible parenting since I
don't want to be the first form of peer pressure they encounter.